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Thursday, March 31, 2011
Fried Nuts
“When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child...”
SHIRIN: 4 years old
FREDERICK: 2 1/2 years old
Frederick enters the front room to play his drums. Shirin is standing in the middle of the room pushing out her belly.
Frederick: Shaween, augh doooooooing? (Shirin, what are you doing?)
Shirin: I think I am a big bully. (I think I have a big belly)
Frederick: Ot-a-in. (Not again)
Shirin: I ate too much green strings. (I ate too much string beans)
Frederick: I-a-a Dreget Drum! (I’m going to drum on Frederick’s Drums!)
Frederick starts to play his drums. Shirin dances to the music with her “big belly”. A fly decides to join the fun. Frederick spots the fly, stops drumming and screams.
Frederick: Beeeeeee! Beeeee!
Shirin: It’s a fry because it is back. (It’s a fly because it is black!)
Shirin disappears for a second and reappears with a fly swatter.
Frederick: Shubel? (Is that a shovel?)
Shirin: It’s a fried sweater that fights bugs! (It’s a fly swatter that fights bugs!)
Frederick watches Shirin as she tries to swat the fly. Shirin uses her best fighting sounds as she swings the fly swatter around in the air and hits various surfaces in the room. Shirin ends every swat with a fighter pose. The “fight” makes Frederick giggle. The giggles become a nervous cry-like giggle every time the fly gets too close to him. After many attempts Shirin finally makes contact.
Shirin: I got it!
Frederick points to the fly.
Frederick: Her name? (What is that?)
Shirin: It’s a fry! (It’s a fly!)
Frederick looks unsure.
Shirin: Bees live in big farts! (Bees live in big tree barks!)
Mom walks in. Both kids are staring at the squashed fly on the floor. Shirin is close to it and studying it intensely. Frederick is not so close and looks unsure.
Shirin: Mom, I squished a fry and it’s nuts came out! (I squished a fly and it’s guts came out!)
Mom looks surprised. Shirin uses the fly sweater as a pointer. She points to the fly with her chest out.
Shirin: Fried nuts! (Fly’s guts!)
Mom: Wow, good job Shirin!
Mom can tell Frederick is uneasy. He reaches for her.
Frederick: Old you? (Will you hold me?)
Mom: What’s wrong Frederick?
Frederick: Beeeee!
Mom: Don’t worry Frederick, it’s just a fly. It can’t hurt you. I don’t like bees too but it was not a bee. And if it was we would have opened the window and let it fly out. We don’t want that yucky fear in our heart.
Shirin: The fry made Frederick up-sweat so it had to supper the cwon-sin-quens-es. (The fly made Frederick upset so it had to suffer the consequences.)
Frederick: Like it. (I don’t like it.)
Mom: I know you didn’t like it.
Shirin: And I won it! Pretend you ordered me from Shirin.com to fight the fry. Pow!
Shirin makes power fighting moves in the air. Mom giggles as she picks up the dead fly in a tissue and throws it in a nearby trash can. Frederick becomes less tense and starts to smile.
Mom: You are a worrier Shirin and always will be. God will order up some Shirin as you grow up in your faith. I pray that you will be wise in your fights! Pow!
Mom tries to throw a power punch herself. It makes both kids burst out in laughter. She looks down at Frederick as he goes back to his drums.
Mom: And you Frederick, as you grow up in your faith I pray God will give you courage and that you will trust Him. He will use you and your drums to help others have courage too.
Frederick starts to play his drums and hums a rocked out version of “Twinkle Twinkle, Little Star.” With her fly swatter weapon in hand, Shirin dances a warrior dance all around the room.
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1 Corinthians 13:11
When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Don't Touch
Don’t Touch
“Even small children are known by their actions...”
MISSY:
Missy stood in the kitchen. Her attention on the electric stove top. The glowing red seemed to mesmerize her. she remembered several months earlier when she was told never to touch it, especially when the stove top is glowing red. “It will burn you,” her mother warned. Although Missy knew she was not supposed to get near the stove when it was red, she would catch herself glancing up there. “Why not?” she thought, “What did getting burned feel like?”
It was only last week when she had stood in the kitchen and saw the stove top was black, not glowing red. She had stood and wondered, “What would one little touch feel like?” just as she was now. Obeying her mom and trusting her judgment is what had kept her from reaching out to touch it then. She hated doing things that were wrong because of the feeling it left in her heart. Missy hadn’t wanted to get hurt, she just wanted to know how it would feel. Slowly she had reached out her hand and touched the stove which was surprisingly cold sending a shiver down her spine. Her curiosity was satisfied and a glance around told her nobody had seen her. Immediately Missy had recognized that yucky feeling in her heart. It was not about the stove, that was uneventful, but knowing that she had secretly touched it sent a shiver down her spine, just as cold as the black stove top.
But today the stove was glowing and her curiosity burned again. Missy paused, “Would it feel the same as last week? Would it be cold or would it be more cozy?” She could tell it was cooling down, the glow was slowly going away and being replaced by the black. With her opportunity slipping away, Missy moved her fingers with anticipation to make a move. Then her mothers voice rang in her head, “It will burn you.”
Missy’s heart raced at the warning, she frantically flipped her head around the kitchen to see if she was still alone. She was, but she knew it was probably not for long. She had not reached up sooner and had paused to contemplate only because of her faint memory of a cold yucky heart feeling.
She loved her mom and didn’t want to let her down. “But,” she rationalized, “I got away with it last week and my heart felt yucky for only a while.” Curiosity slowly became stronger than her conviction. Her thoughts raced, “Mom didn’t know and nothing bad had happened and even more... I didn’t get hurt.” Concluding that her mom’s warning was wrong she continued, “What came of last week? Nothing. I touched and walked away just fine.” Missy knew if she hurried right now she could satisfy her curiosity once and for all, the glow was fading and she didn’t know if she would have another chance. “After all,” she concluded, “it’s better to be hot than cold so it couldn’t be bad.”
Deciding that it would be just like last time Missy reached up. She knew that all this curiosity would be put to rest by doing it real quick, touching the stove and walking away. Missy paused as she moved toward the stovetop continued to reason to herself, “Nobody would even have to know.” And this time she knew she would be fully satisfied because she would finally find out what it felt like when it was red. One thing is for sure, she would avoid that cold shiver.
Readying herself for a quick exit from the kitchen, Missy opened her fist with her fingers spread apart and pressed down on the stove top. “Aughhhhhhh!” Missy shrieked as she jerked herself back. The pain ran all the way up her arm and her hand was stinging like she had never felt before. The shock of it made her fall to the floor and shake. What is this??? She didn’t realize that it would hurt! She didn’t know she would actually really get burned! The pain was unbearable and all she could do was stare at her burning skin and scream. Was her hand going to fall off? Her mom rushed in and frantically asked what happened. “Aughhhhhhh, stow, stow, Aughhhhh!” Missy whimpered.
“You touched the stove!?!?!?! Oh no!” Missy’s mom exclaimed as she rushed over scooping Missy up and proceeding to run her hand under water. It barely soothed the pain.
“Why on earth did you touch the stove?” Missy’s mom asked in bewilderment.
Missy couldn’t stop screaming from the pain and her heart screamed even louder at her mom’s question. As the water ran over her hand Missy thought maybe her scorched skin would just peal off. After several minutes Missy was able to settle down but felt like her skin was ruined forever. Maybe her hand wouldn’t fall off and perhaps her the skin was not peeling like she feared, but her entire arm felt the blow. Maybe the muscles would never work again.
Then Missy noticed that her entire family stood in the kitchen staring at her as she sat on the counter next to the sink with her hand under the running water. Her dad at the counter flipping through their phone book, her older sister Sherry rattling off stove safety, her younger brother Ralphy demanding to know how it happened and her little sister Candy just tearing up. “So much for the quick exit. So much for nobody ever knowing.” Missy thought with dismay. Now everyone was there and knew what she had done. She realized that she had been foolish in disobeying. Embarrassment creeped all over her. The pain and the burn was proof. Missy’s dad and mom called the doctor and followed the instructions of wrapping Missy’s hand up in a bandage that had to stay on for over a week. She remembered her mother’s voice, “It will burn you.” Now she understood what that meant. With all her might she wished she could pull back time and trusted and obeyed her mom and found a way to kill her own curiosity. But now the consequence was not going away. She had to live with this pain and it felt like it would never subside.
Every day for the next week the pain did not seem to subside. Her mom said it would and that she had to be patient saying that her hand would not stay hurt forever even though it felt like it would. That little by little she would heal and feel better. Never did Missy want this consequence. The pleasure of feeding a curiosity was not worth the price she was now paying. Missy heard her mom say it would be better but the pain told her she would never be better. That she would never be the same.
About a week later while Missy laid in her bed, her mom came in to say goodnight.
“Mom. I’m sowy foe tuchin thee stobe,” Missy said with a large lump in her throat.
Missy’s mom gave her a hug saying “I forgive you Missy.” Those words of forgiveness lifted a burden Missy had carried all week. “I give you rules so that you do not do things that will hurt yourself.” Missy knew it was true. The lesson ran deeper then her mom knew. Deeper than the burnt skin. It ran all the way to her heart and never again did she want to find out what disobeying would bring. Maybe that cold yucky heart feeling was a warning. She prayed that she would recognize that warning for all her life.
“I’m fewing bet-toe today mom,” Missy exclaimed as she looked at her bandaged hand. “Wen can de ban-dwidge can come off?”
“Soon Missy. The doctor will probably take it off tomorrow.”
When the bandage came off Missy had a hard time moving her fingers and using her hand at all. It took several more weeks for complete healing. But the day came when she didn’t think about her hand and she used it just as she did before, without protecting the sensitive spots. Her mom was right. She did heal from the pain. But, on the other hand, the lesson she learned found a permanent home in her brain.
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Proverbs 20:11 “Even small children are known by their actions, so is their conduct really pure and upright?”
Romans 4:7 “Blessed are those whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered.”
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Throwing up H-A-T-E
Shirin: 7 years old
Mom: thirty7 years old
Two creative silly billies are alone together in the car, on the way to church…
Shirin: (As mom pulls the car out of the garage) Mom, you know how Jesus came to save us from our sins?
Mom: yes
Shirin: Well what if he didn’t come yet. I mean I know we are not Jewish but I’m just saying he didn’t come YET and we had to get rid of our sin by throwing it up.
Mom: So when you throw up you’d be like, “Blaaaaa, oh there goes stealing!”
Shirin: (Laughter) Yea and like, “Blaaaaaaa, there goes hate!”
Mom: (Even bigger) Blaaaaaaa-ya-yaaaaaa, Jealously!
Shirin: (Louder) Bllllllaaaaaaaa-ya-ya-yaaaaa, Bad Sport!
Mom: Or what if you fart it out!
(Belly laughter from both)
Shirin: You could fart it out, or poop it out. Tooooot! And the fart is like a puff of green smoke that says “Gossip” See ya! Don’t ever come back!
Mom: Yea, good bye Rage, come back when you get some Self Control. Or you could sweat it or it could be like ear wax!
Shirin: Yea and you get a q-tip and when you pull it out instead of ear wax you see a word that spells Cheating.
Mom: Or (Blowing noise) you could blow your nose and you see the word Jealously.
Shirin: (Blowing noises)
Mom: (Barf noises)
Shirin: (Farting noises) Or when you get a cut you can bleed H – A – T – E.
Mom: And when it’s all out, all that sin, you’re empty and hungry.
Shirin: Yea, but not your tummy. Your heart is hungry.
Mom: So instead of an apple tree you would see a Love tree. And you can pick some love. Mmmmm, that sure does taste good.
Shirin: There can be a special tube that brings the Love to your heart.
Mom: Yea, you know in the inside of the stomach, instead of going to the intestines there can be a door. And there can be body police to direct traffic. “Mean spirited, this way, your going to be pooped. Self control, right in here, a heart waits for your arrival!”
Shirin: Yea poop out that sin!
Mom: So a Love tree and in the garden instead of pulling up garden carrots you pull up Garden Self Controls. Mmmmm!
Shirin: And instead of Lettuce it’s a head of Gentleness
(After parking the car in the church parking lot they get out)
Mom: Look Shirin! It’s a Love tree! (Walking up to an invisible tree) Here’s some love for you (Like picking an apple) and one for me! Cheers!
Shirin: I already ate it!
(Laughter)
Mom: (Taking Shirin’s hand and walking up to church) Good thing we don’t have to throw up our sin on our own. Good thing Jesus did come and took care of our sins on the cross and He’s changing up our heart every day with kindness, goodness, gentleness…
Shirin: (Squeezing mom’s hand) Yea, good thing.
“May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
1 Thessalonians 5:23
Monday, January 10, 2011
See You Later, Alligater
“A happy heart makes the face cheerful…”
SHIRIN:
In the next room Shirin could hear her dad and mom with her brother. She knew that in just minutes it would be her turn and then they would say good night to her. She let her mind start down the list, one by one. “Fox, cow, duck, fly, raccoon…” Oh I hope I can remember them all! She thought. Shirin could hear her dad’s voice through the wall reading a book to her brother. “Oh man! Remember… bug, bird, pig…” She heard her mom’s voice start to pray.
“Thank you Lord for Frederick ’s big smile and dimple. You have made him full of compassion and respect. Thank you that he loves music and rhythms. May he use his gifts and talents for you. Bless him with courage…”
Shirin did not want to be the one to forget. She kept recalling all the animals. Come on! Another one, a new one!
Her dad opened her door. “Ok baby doll, it’s time to go to sleep. Get into bed and pick out your comfy.” Shirin looked at all of her stuffed animals and chose Lamby to sleep with. Lamby was her very first comfy as a baby. Shirin’s dad put out the lamp, put on the nightlight and sat next to her on the bed. Forgetting the list Shirin remembered several things she needed to tell her dad. “Daddy I need help with getting past level 9 on supper Mario brothers, can you help me? I mean not now because I know we don’t play during the week, but if I don’t get it taken away can you help me on Friday? Oh and my singing monkey needs batteries… and guess what happen at lunch today… you know Lukie and I made up a song for being in the second grade and it goes like this… it was so funny…” Her dad enjoyed her talking. But after a while he gently made the transition.
“Ok, it’s getting late. We can talk more tomorrow. Let’s pray. Dear God, be with Shirin tonight as she sleeps. Watch over and protect her…”
Shirin could hardly follow along. Her brain became too busy thinking of animals again. Her dad finished up his prayer as her mom came into the room. “Did you pray with her?”
“Yes he did but can you pray too mama?” Shirin said. Her dad grinned and kissed her on the forehead. “I love you dada.”
“I love you too baby girl.” He walked out of the room.
Shirin’s mom sat on the bed. “Dear Lord, thank you so much for Shirin, how she is so confident and sure of her self. Thank you that she is silly, social and so giving. May she be a firecracker for you Lord. Bless her with discernment and wisdom…”
Shirin’s mind wondered. Alligator, crocodile, baboon.
“…In Jesus name, a-man.” A kiss on the forehead and it was time!
She looked right at her mom with a smirk, “See you later, alligator.” Shirin’s mom smiled real big and giggled.
“After a while, crocodile” Her mom said as she walked to the door and stood in the door way.
“Too soon, baboon. Too soon, raccoon”
“Hey,” her mom playfully objected. “That’s two!”
“Don’t go too far, sea star” Shirin giggled.
Quickly Shirin’s mom added “Good bye, fly.”
Back and forth they went… “Good luck, duck. Take a bow, cow. Stay on the course, horse. Stay funky, monkey. Don’t gawk, hawk. Give me a hug, bug. Stay out of the fog, dog. Go jog, hog. Do a jig, pig. Don’t be a turd, bird. Out of the sandbox, fox. Go away, stingray. Good night, mite. Time to bail, snail.”
Oh no! It was Shirin’s turn! No, she didn’t want to be the last one… What was that new one she thought of? Oh yea! “Be real, eel.”
“Oh, that’s a new one! Good one. Ummmmm.” Her mom thought. “Be firm, worm.” Her mom was so good at this. Oh wait, they forgot one…
“And there you went, elephant.” A good one to end on.
Her mom started to close the door. And then paused, “Hit the road, toad.”
They both broke out in laughter. “Your good mom!”
With a smile, “See you in the morning honey. I love you!”
Feeling satisfied with their good night sayings, “I love you too ma ma.”
“A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit.”
Proverbs 15:13
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